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Friday, September 30, 2011
Alderson Funeral Home of Naugatuck
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St. Naugatuck, Connecticut, United States
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10:00 am
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Beacon Falls Congregational Church
69 Wolfe Avenue
Beacon Falls, Connecticut, United States
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Grove Cemetery (New Haven Rd. Entrance)
627 New Haven
Rd. Rt. 63 Naugatuck, Connecticut, United States
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Tara Shepley posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Judy continued to serve as a BSF (Bible study) leader throughout the year even as she grieved Joe's sudden passing. She showed all of us in leadership true faith and trust in her heavenly Father who sustained comforted, and carried her through that tough time. We were amazed at how the Holy Spirit filled her to serve in Jesus's name.
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Jessica Monarca posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
My grandfather was an amazing, strong man in my life. I couldn't have asked for a better grandfather or childhood because of him. When I think back on everything, many of my memories involve him and my grandma. I spent most of my time at their house. One tradition that I'll always cherish was our Friday night dinners that my grandparents have done for as long as I could remember. I can remember going to their house for dinner even when they lived in Seymour. Grandpa would come pick me up after school every Friday and bring me to their house. We'd have dinner and Brittany, Gabrielle, and I would play for hours. Then once it hit 10 pm he'd bring me home. I remember all those car rides where I'd get to sit in the front seat with him and we'd listen to country music and just talk about pretty much anything. I know the tradition of Friday night dinners will go on, but it will never be the same without his sense of humor and his "huffing and puffing." I also remember when I'd go fishing with him and my dad and I'd sit the in middle of his pick up truck with a pillow on my lap and the seat belt to keep me in place. We'd just fish for hours without a single care in the world. I also remember when he lived in Seymour and he had his workshop downstairs where he built all kind of things. He built this cute little birdhouse with me and let me paint it. I put it in my backyard and was so proud of the work we did. My grandfather always had a sense of humor whether it was him and I calling each other names like Stinky or Ugly or just when I'd pull into his driveway and he told me I was at the wrong house. Grandpa and I had such a love/hate relationship. We'd pretend we hated each other and didn't get along, yet it was our special way of saying I love you. I always knew I could count on him for anything and everything. If I needed a ride whether it was to college when I didn't have a car or to work he'd help me in a second. I know Brittany and Gabrielle will agree with me on this, but we had a special bond with my grandfather that no one can ever take away or understand. It hurts to think the Emma and Kaelen will never get to experience our Papa like Britt, Gab, and I did. I know that if he was still here they would grow to love him and see him the same way we did/do.
Grandpa, everyone misses you so much. I will cherish all the memories we made over the years and will hold them close to my heart. You helped me through so many good times and bad times and I am very grateful for that. We will help Grandma get through this and be her support system. My dad is a spitting image of you and I love that. You were such an amazing, loving man. Everyone who knew you would agree with me. Slowly I will come to terms with you leaving us because I know you're in a better place now and looking over us, but right now I wish you were still here. I love you and miss you so much! <3 You are our guardian angel now.
Jessica <3
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Judith Hines posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Judy - So sorry to read about Joe's sudden passing. Many prayers will be coming your way for you, Joe and the family. Sincerely, Judith Hines
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Ellen McDermott posted a condolence
Monday, October 3, 2011
Judy.. so sorry to hear about Joe. What a special man he was and how lucky you are to have had so many years with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. ... Ellen from WW
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Sue Monarca posted a condolence
Friday, September 30, 2011
It's hard to put into words what goes through my mind when I sit here thinking of my dad - or "Daddy" as I would still call him, right before I'd tease him and ask when his beard became all salt and no pepper. The best way to describe him was that he was a big bear. He was very protective of his family, and if he ever thought any of them were threatened, he could be a big grizzly. When people first met him, they were sometimes afraid of him. He was a tough guy and could be gruff at times, but once you realized his "Oh no, not you again" comments were actually his attempts at humor to make you feel welcome [you all remember his sense of humor!], you would realize that he was much more like a giant koala bear than a grizzly. This giant koala was a loving husband, a great dad, and an amazing "Papa." We have so many great memories, and it would take a book to tell them all. So, I will just share a little of the "behind the scenes" moments with you all so that you may see why we loved him so. When I used to tell him I was going to tell people the mushy things he did and ruin his tough guy image, he would say, "I'll deny it all."
When the three of us kids were growing up, Mom sometimes worked nights. My dad would come home after a long day at work and instead of sitting in a chair relaxing, he would spend the evening playing with us. One of his favorite games was Simon Says. I still remember the time we had been playing it for quite a while when my brother, now in the position of Simon, said, "Simon says do this" and began popping his double jointed thumbs in and out [yes, truly]. My dad started laughing so hard he was crying, and the three of us kids were practically rolling on the floor at his reaction. We had many laughs. As many of you know, my dad was a master spot welder, but he was also a craftsman. He made our couches, coffee tables and many other things. I loved going down into the basement as a kid - his "workshop" - and watching him make things. I loved the smell of the wood and the sound of his table saw. I would watch him measure angles then pull his pencil out from behind his ear to mark the wood. I remember him spending hours sanding and staining until the finished product looked perfect. And I remember him telling me that it was time to go to bed, and I would go up the stairs, pretend to leave by opening and closing the door, and then sit there a bit longer watching him work. He had kid-size work benches for us, and he would spend time teaching us how to make things. I still remember how excited I was when he gave me a real tool belt, an apron from Stevenson lumber, my own hammer, and my favorite - the square carpenter's pencil that Dad would have to sharpen with a knife. My dad was also a fisherman, and I remember him taking us fishing - having us use good old nightcrawlers and those little red and white bobbers. It's amazing I didn't go blind from the sun's glare off the water as I tried to watch those bobbers for movement. And I still remember vividly the day he told me I didn't need the bobber anymore, handed me one of his good fishing poles, and taught me how to fish the "real way." That was a special day. One of the most important things he taught me was that there was nothing that said I couldn't do the "guy things" I loved like fishing and digging for worms, while still loving the "girlie things" like buying new bikinis or getting dressed up in high heels. I'm going to miss emailing him pictures of me holding a monster bluefish or striper that I caught [always bigger than anything he caught] and seeing his response of, "I hate you. Love, Dad," or "That's my girl."
As a husband, I remember my dad always telling my mom he loved her. He would gently give her a kiss and say, "I love you." Or sometimes to be funny, he would yell, "Jude!" She'd yell, "What?!" And he'd answer quietly, "I love you." I remember as kids we would roll our eyes because they were always hugging and kissing. My dad would grab my mom, dip her in his arms and kiss her- just like from a movie. We would go, "oooohhhhh" or "eeewwww" and my dad would pull her into the nearest room and shut the door. We would start laughing and try getting through the door. It was our little game. One time in our Shelton house, my dad pulled my mom into their room, gave her a big kiss in front of us and then closed the door and locked it. My brother called Judy and I out onto the porch. We looked into the bedroom window and could see that Mom and Dad were looking at their bedroom door laughing, listening for us. Joel started knocking on the bedroom window, and the two of them spun around and saw us. My dad ran to the window and pulled down the shades. We could hear his loud laughing through the closed windows. And their loving gestures continued through the years, with my mom and dad still to this day leaving each other little notes just to say "I love you" or "Have a great day at work." All couples have times they bicker with one another or drive each other crazy, and my parents were no exception. But they loved each other deeply, and the hugs and kisses and whispered words of endearment never stopped.
And as a Papa, my dad was the best. When he would enter a room where any of his grandchildren were, you would hear the shout of "Papa" and giggles would ensue as he began making faces and acting silly. I can see little Emma's eyes lighting up as she would spin around to see him and shout, "Papa!" Now that he's not here to deny it, I can tell you some of the things he did for his granddaughters. He babysat Gabrielle regularly from the time she was six weeks old. She had some health issues at the time which made her cranky, and he would rock her and walk her around the house for hours until I got home, sometimes putting Patsy Cline on the stereo as he slowly danced around with her. He let his granddaughters put barrettes in his hair, and as the hair on his head lessened [a fact that the girls would ALWAYS bring up], he let the girls put them in his beard. When Jessica was little, she was our little chatterbox. My dad would sit on the floor with her and listen to her go on and on, looking straight into her eyes as if he were hanging onto every word. One of his favorite things was to bend over and let one of the girls grab onto his beard with both hands, and he would slowly raise his head back up to lift her into the air. He would don birthday hats, bonnets, a feather boa, whatever the girls would want to put on him. I remember Brittany and Gabrielle making him sit on the couch as they went into their dress up box and just covered him with anything girlie they could find - including clip on earrings. All three girls would tease him, and he loved every minute of it - even when Gabrielle, still a little girl, began calling him Poppyseed and had me buy him a big container of poppyseeds for his birthday. He would still occasionally take the girls fishing, and I can only imagine what he had planned for Kaelen, his new grandson. Had he lived, I'm sure he would have had Kaelen outfitted with a complete set of fishing gear, a filled toolbox and a model ship by Kaelen's first birthday.
We will all miss him dearly. I wouldn't have traded him for any other father in the entire world. Susan
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Gabrielle Brassell posted a condolence
Friday, September 30, 2011
From the day I was born you were always there when I needed you. As a baby you tolerated my screaming, crying, and sickness to no end; even when it interrupted your cigarette break. As I got older we only grew closer, sharing our favorite color (purple) and our fondness for wearing baseball caps. You came to all of my school plays and swim meets, and you always went above and beyond to make sure I had a good time. I remember on one specific occasion you took me to my elementary school science fair because I wanted the popcorn that they usually would hand out at that kind of a school function. When we arrived and there was not the usual popcorn machine, you drove me all the way to the movie theater just so I could still have the popcorn I was hoping for. I also remember that you let me sit in the front passenger seat of your truck (while it was parked, of course), which had been the icing on the cake. One of my absolute favorite traditions has always been my weekly Friday visits to your house. Every week, no matter what the weather or circumstances, you would never fail to come in your large tan pick-up truck with Ella in the front seat. Fridays will never be the same without you, I'm sure Britt and Jess would agree with that. It's still so hard to comprehend that you're really gone. As the days go by it becomes more and more apparent how different life will be without you; from things as simple as getting rides to my job at the zoo to how different it will be during holidays and family get-togethers without your ever-present unique sense of humor and unmistakable "huffing and puffing". There isn't enough time in the world to list all of the other memories that come up when I think of you, so I'll just leave it at this, (and yes, mom, I'm quoting Eminem): You may be gone, but you're never over...
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The Walkley Family posted a condolence
Friday, September 30, 2011
Judy, our heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. The few times that we were around Joe, he seemed full of fun and laughter. May your memories be your comfort.
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Charlie Drake posted a condolence
Thursday, September 29, 2011
I am sorry to hear about Joe's passing. I worked with him almost 20 years at Sikorsky's. He was a good friend and coworker. I know he will be missed. Charlie Drake (known as checkout charlie)
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Craig Nystrom posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
I have MANY great memories with Uncle Joe.Our families,my Mom and Dad,sisters and brother spent many holidays and special events together.The most recent was when we were all together in Madison,Ct..We laughed so hard I could cry.Joe was a natural man who was honest to the bone.All the family reunions in the 60's.Memorial day picnics.Playing cards during the holidys in Rhinebeck and Vermont.Going to Orvis so he could check out fishing gear.When I was younger he was the tough guy with tough friends and it all was cool.He wore tight jeans and boots with a t'shirt and Lucky non-filters rolled in his sleeve.He WAS the Fonz!I love my Uncle Joe.
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Brittany Brassell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Ever since I can remember my grandparents have been very much in love...you could just tell. When I was younger, I will admit, I thought that some of their signs of affection were "gross". As I have grown older and acquired a relationship of my own, I started to look up to them instead. In life, love is one of those beautiful things that not everyone finds. If you find true love, as my grandparents did, there is no doubt you will stay together forever. There's a reason why you state in your vows "till death do us part". When you find that person who completes you, the one that makes it seem like as long as you have each other everything will be alright, then you have no reason to split apart. On a day-to-day basis you could see the love that my grandparents shared. It was the small gestures that I have seen over the years that made me really appreciate the true love that they had for each other. Sometimes I would be sitting in the backseat of Papa's truck, on our way to Friendly's for dinner, and he would slip his hand over the console to reach for my grandma's hand. He would hold her hand the whole ride there; sometimes even as they walked into the restaurant. Even after being married for as long as they were, they weren't afraid to show their love, even in the simplest forms. Every time my grandma or grandpa would leave the house without the other they would always kiss each other goodbye; 2 kisses to be exact. It was always like that. There wasn't a time when they didn't make sure that they told the other to "make sure you drive safely". The concern that they had for each other shows what a strong bond they had. My Nama and Papa stayed married for 47 years and I'm sure that if he was still here, Papa would continue showing his love as he always has. Nama, Papa will always be with you in your heart. He loved you with everything he had and you meant the world to him...I could tell. Everyone knew what a strong love you two shared. It's hard to find love like that these days. Just remember that he is looking down on you with a smile and that one day you will get to see him again. We are all here for you. We know how hard it must be, but we will get through this together. Papa loves you, and we all love you too.
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Angela posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Patty and I drove North, to Boston, to help Judy get ready for her bouncing baby boy's arrival. There was stuff to shuffle around, preparing to paint, taping, actually painting, cleaning up, etc., etc., etc. On day two, her father and brother came up to build new, weight-bearing, sturdy, book shelves. :) In recalling that fun-kaos...I am so glad for the memories, especially now! The best part was our "food-break!" We got to visit, sitting down together outside, while eating pulled-pork sandwiches and some fixin's in the bit of shade and patch of grass in the backyard! :) A wonderful time I won't soon forget! :) You will be sorrily missed! :( Hope to hang out with you, once again someday! :) My deepest sympathies go out to family and friends, during this very difficult time! God Bless You All! Sincerely, ~Angela Izzo
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Terrence and Patricia Altieri posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Judy, we were shocked and saddened to learn of Joe's passing. If we can be of any help to you at all, please let us know. With deepest sympathy, Terry and Pat
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Mike Alexander posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss and I pray that with the comfort of the Holy Spirit, the love that Joe gave to you all will help you all heal. Joe to me was a good example of a REAL American hero : someone who did his job the best he could, was a good husband and instilled true virtues in his children. It was guys like Joe that made this country great. Well done, Joe.....now enjoy Heaven......mike
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Nancy Nystrom Stansbery posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Thinking of Uncle Joe has always made me smile with wonderful memories of such a warm, loving person. My love and sympathy to the family, especially Aunt Judy. I will be coming to the funeral with my daughter Peggy and look forward to seeing the family. It has been such a long time.
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Pat Branciforte posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Uncle Mil and I extend our sincere sympathy to all of you on the death of Joe. How he used to tease me that I was still his "old aunt" even though I was only 8 months older than him. He'll be sorely missed!
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Tara Shepley posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Judy, I am so sorry I can't make it to your services this weekend; my mom and I will be out of town. What a special man your husband was; the obituary shines with your voice, compassion, and love for him. My prayers are with you and your family at this sudden loss. Love, Tara Shepley
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Beth Reilly-Roman posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Dear Judy and Family, Our prayers and hopes for peace for you all while we try to understand the magnitude of this loss. We will always remember Joe and will hold you close in thought as you grieve. Sending our love and hugs...Jim and Beth Reilly Roman
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JOHN EVERS posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
JOE,WE GO BACK SOME 30 YEARS AT SIKORSKY THEY WERE GOOD YEARS,WAS VERY SAD TO HERE THE NEWS BUT I WAS LUCKY TO HAVE KNOWN YOU,,GOD BLESS,,I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY,,MY BEST REGARDS,JOHN
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Beacon Falls Congregational Church posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Dear Judy and Family, Please know you are in our fervent prayers for comfort and peace at this very sad time. We take solace from the assurance that Joe is with his Creator, Redeemer and Comforter. With much love from, Your Church Family.
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Phylicia Aviles \"Grant\" posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Jess and "dad", I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather/dad. He was such a good hearted man with such a sense of humor; he could always make me laugh when we spent time over your grandparents/parents house. I am truly sorry for your loss. <3 Phylicia "a friend"
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Rosemarie McPherson posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to your family in this time of sarrow. He will be truly missed by your family as well as the entire Branciforte family. Peter & Minnie Branciforte & Family
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Kim Bouchard posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
My Condolences to Joe's family.
I had the pleasure of working with Joe at O&R in Shelton. I was a new induction planner for transmissions. Joe was always so helpful, informative, and willing to go above and beyond to get the job done.
Joe was known to take Cat Naps during break time, (usually with his mouth open), this was so funny, and always gave me a chuckle when I walked by him.
I remember how excited Joe was to retire, and I was there on the day they "Banged him out" (a Sikorsky tradition for people who retire). If you have never experienced this, it's VERY LOUD and emotional all at the same time. The employees were banging loudly on anything metal with tools etc, while Joe was escorted up and down the isles. I remember as Joe passed me, I could see tears welling up in his eyes, although he was excited, life as he knew it would be very different. The people he saw day in and day out for years would no longer be a part of his daily life. I watched Joe walk all the way down the long hall, and out the door for the last time.
That was the last time I saw Joe. I missed walking by sleeping Joe on break after he retired, and I will continue to miss him. I did get to give Joe a hug before he left that day, and all I can say is that this world would be a whole lot better off if we had more guys like Joe in it!
Miss you Joe!
Warmly,
Kim Bouchard
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Guy E. Bierwirth Sr. posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Dear Cousin Judy; Sorry for your loss. Just got the call from brother Don. I am in Oklahoma City, OK. E-mail me later and we can talk. Love, Cousin Guy Bierwirth Sr.
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