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Thursday
12
September
First Visitation
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Alderson Funeral Home of Naugatuck
201 Meadow
St. Naugatuck, Connecticut, United States
Friday
13
September
Service Information
10:00 am
Friday, September 13, 2013
St. Michael's Episcopal Church
210 Church Street
Naugatuck, Connecticut, United States
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Jana posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2013
I got hooked on the cute little mochi ice cream balls in New Haven and you bought a box of twelve so that we could try all the flavors. Your favorite was pumpkin, and mine was blueberry. I loved that little guy, Blueberry. I had finished the whole box before we even got out of the car at our destination that day.
We rode our bikes on the whitestone trail in queens New York. We took a picture of our bikes leaning against each other. I exclaimed, "a big white bike next to a small white bike!" You called me cutie and I called you six foot teddy and "Bri." We spent a year and a half together. That's a bit of time if you look back. It doesn't matter who was in our lives before or after because that was a chapter of both our lives synchronized.
We rode bikes in the dark on Martha's Vineyard. You'd made sure there was a bright flashlight on my bike. While we rode on an unlit path near a graveyard, I told you I felt as if I were pedaling as fast as I could to get away from monsters that would jump out at us. Images from the movie, I Am Legend swept through my brow. I felt like a kid....hanging out with a childhood buddy because that's how I saw u and that's how I'd like to remember as.
I gave you a panda card. The panda is holding a little red heart. I had fun snatching the heart out of the pandas grasp. You perched panda next to your glass plaque from the students at gateway...the students you kept safe every day you were on this earth.
You introduced me to a new show about EMTs. You told me about your experience with Campion Ambulance and accused me of not understanding the significance of your dedication to people and keeping them safe. I do understand. after we watched the show, you put ointment on my foot...the one foot that was always chafed from walking in cheap sandals. I'm sad Brian, that when you needed help on tht fateful motorcycle ride, that you weren't able to make it.
You saw me riding on my bike in the parking lot on Andrew Mountain one night. I was waiting for you to come home late from work. I always waited up for you. You told me that when you saw me in my periwinkle rain jacket, your use had quickened and you had been happy to see me there. You told me nobody else in your life had made you get like that. You honked your car horn to let me know you were behind me.
We went on hikes....we took the canoe...the ripped up green one that the nice chiropractor dude gave you. I needed to pee and you rowed off to the side so I could pee in the lake near some bushes. I couldn't get the pee out becausei was too conscious of you watching. I think I eventually did it and we rowed into the center of the lake.i toppled over and you pulled me up and laughed at my clumsiness.
A thanksgiving hike where we passed a row of lovely summer camp cabins....we offered a sinister twist to the day by saying the campgrounds reminded us of Jason slasher horror movies. Yah, this is where Jason went to camp and killed all the campers. Still want to stay overnight in one of these lovely cabins? Shake head.
After Alina's wedding, I took a bath and went to sleep with my hair wet. It got all curly in the morning and you said it was beautiful. I love your hair! I had gone to sleep the night before with the lights on and my left foot dangling off the bed. You came in and turned off the lights and tucked my foot in.
The thanksgiving hike fills my mind with yellow leaves. We crunched our way through the beautiful foliage. I told you tht when I was a child, yellow crunchy leaves in autumnal bloom reminded me of Kellogg's Cornflakes.
When I was pregnant with Sawyer, we went to the fair....I don't think it was the Goshen fair, but I could be wrong. We ate everything under the sun including the fried Oreos that you liked. We sat, leaning against the red barn door, watching firecrackers. It was so Charlottes Web that I squealed with delight. You didn't really get why I squealed though, did you?
I sang Katharine McPhees song to you while we lay on the huge mattress in my parents basement. You told me you honestly felt I had an impressive voice. The next day when I sang in my mock Mickey Mouse voice, you then told me, no, never mind, you don't have a good voice. Haha!
We went to a special Easter chocolate candy factory and collected all the goodies to make our own Easter basket. I was jealous tht you had so many good ideas involving kids.
Brian, we were friends. We spent time together. I own minutes of your life that no one else has seen. I will remember you. You are my sons biological father. I will tell my baby good things. I hope you will come visit usin our dreams. It is pointless to be bitter and angry. We need to remember that we are all merely human and once a life is over, small things don't matter.
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Chrystal posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2013
My first semester at Gateway all of my classes were at night. I don't drive so when I got out of class I would have to wait over an hour for the next bus to bring me home. It was during these times that I shared many interesting conversations with Brian. One of these conversations was about food and I told him all about the South West Eggrolls I (at the time) made almost every single day because my boyfriend absolutely loves them. He thought they sounded great and wanted to try them. It took a while before I was able to keep enough from my boyfriend's grip and share them with Brain and the night I brought them in Brain said but now I'm on a diet. He ended up only being able to eat one because he shared them with the rest of the guards. He said they were amazing and requested that I make some just for him. I never got the chance but it sure was in my plans. Brain I'm sorry I wasn't able to bring you more. I will never forget the smile on your face and your caring heart. Thank you for keeping me company as I waited to go home each night. My deepest condolences go out to your family, especially your beautiful babies, You were taken too early but heaven sure has gained an angel. R.I.P
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joe giraldi posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2013
sorry to hear about brian, he was a baby last time I visited.
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Alyssia posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2013
I did not know Brian, but I lost my father one week earlier, also to a motorcycle accident. I am so sorry for your loss. I know all too well how it feels. My deepest condolences.
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Roxanne posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2013
I remember when we were young(er), at Mom's house in Seymour, and the 911 dispatcher kept calling to see what the emergency was. We (the family) were getting angry and telling the 911 operator to get their phones fixed, that we had no emergency. Well..........we found Brian in the corner smirking with a guilty face.....he took the phone behind the furniture and kept calling/hanging up on the 911 operator. Hysterical!
I remember him telling us when he was away at school, he figured out how to get free telephone service for himself and others. He climbed the telephone pole and did something funky.... bingo - free phone.
He is, was and always will be my most funniest, fun loving, caring cousin.
Rest In Peace Brian. We love you.
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Jana posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2013
I love you Brian. Sorry it took me so long to say it but I told you I'd say it when I knew for sure. I've never been one to be rushed. The last time I saw you on sept 4,2013 you promised me that we would continue our talk and meet for a meal and possibly get together again. I admired your optimism. You're not one to give up. Please visit me in my dreams some time so that we can have that talk. Drop in from time to time to check up on sawyer. We will be thinking about you forever.
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SHARON FENTON ORCUTT posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Gordon and family so sorry to hear about your loss , thoughts and prayers are sent to you- Sharon Fenton, classmate 1971
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Rick posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2013
My prayers and condolences to Brian’s family. I can’t believe Brian won’t be stopping by my office anymore to talk about tactical flashlights and making plans for range time. He had such a great heart, people liked and respected him. I knew him during good times and through the painful and he always had a positive outlook and hopes for a good future. He was a true asset to Gateway. He was always there for students and staff. I watched him catch a hit and run driver in the far parking lot on long Wharf years ago. How he could see that far was beyond me. His children were his 1st love and priority. He always said Christmas was the most special. Brian was a good man and true friend. I will miss him.
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Jana posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
We went to this Korean farm in New Jersey where there were an abundance of Korean pears in season. You picked up a little yellow chick in the palm of your hand and I snapped a picture. We made a lot of little day trips and road trips to so many places and talked about our old classmates from Nyma. I can envision you dancing in your bedroom in the dark to old songs from the 90's when we had community showers at Nyma. You always looked so handsome in your work uniform and I never told you. I was proud to be your date the night the students at gateway community college awarded you that plaque for having quiet integrity. You mean the world to Addison and Johnny. They will never ever forget how their father loved and cared so much that he made every visit count.
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Tammy Breen posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
I am deeply sorry to hear of the loss of Brian. I knew Brian and worked with him for many years in EMS at Campion and at Naugatuck. Brian always had a good outlook on things and was a pleasure to work with. My prayers are with Brian and his family. Sincerely, Tammy Breen Beaufort, South Carolina.
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John Desrosiers posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
It's unbelievable to me that Brian is gone. My deepest sympathy goes out to Brian's family, especially to his children. Having seen Brian at several of his daughter's recitals over the years, it was obvious what a good father he was, and how proud he was of his children. Brian really was a special guy and cared deeply about his children, his job, and the people at Gateway. One of the students said, after hearing about our loss on Saturday, "Gateway is much less safe today than it was yesterday". I agree wholeheartedly with that statement. Hopefully there are motorcycles in heaven and we can go for a ride together when I get there. Rest in peace Brian.
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Michelle Fraser posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
My prayers goes out to his parents and children. Brian was a real good friend, little brother and son. He really loved his children. I loved the way he would always come in my office and he would just sit there and talk to me about any and everything. I really love it when he would talk about his children how his big round face would light up. His children were his world. We had this special time at the college which was on Friday nights. During this time our friend Pam would cook meals for us and we would just eat until we could not eat anymore. Brian loved Pam cooking. Brian it will not be the same on Friday nights without you but we will continue on with our tradition and make sure that we put a plate aside for you. Rest in Peace. Love always Michelle
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Jessica (Whitticar) Fricke posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Rest in Peace buddy. I always will remember your kind heart and compassion from when you worked at Campion and I worked at St. Mary's ER. I remember fostering one of your cats for a little while and the love you showed them along with your family. You never lost the peace in your heart or soul. You will be greatly missed
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Sandra Wells posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
It was nice to finally meet you and your lovely children.I was able to see what a wonderful father,son and person you were.Looking forward to seeing you again in the promised resurrection.I know my David would be honored to meet you.You were a chip of the old block.Love Aunt Sandy
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The Stevens posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Aunt Terri and Uncle Gordon Our thoughts, prayers and hugs are with you and his beautiful children. It is unbelievable and I cannot understand WHY. We had a wonderful visit with Brian the day before the accident. It was such a nice time, reminiscing about the 'old times'. He will always be remembered as our fun loving cousin. Love, Roxanne, Brian, Brian Jr. & Ashley
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Kristen Lynn posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Brian, I was so sad to hear about your untimely passing. My heart aches for those you left behind, especially your parents and children. As Lauren said, I will be sure that Addison and Johnny always remember that you were a good father to them and loved them very much. Rest in peace. Kristen
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Tuesday, September 10, 2013
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lucas ortiz posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
a coworker Jadz and I got back at Brian for what he did to my van by putting toilet paper all over it!! so we did the same to his motorcycle!!LOL
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Lucas Ortiz posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
a coworker Jadz and I got back at Brian for putting toilet paper on my van years ago!! so we did the same to his motorcycle!!LOL
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Christine Esposito posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Brian, This is unimaginable to me. My heart is sunk. My prayers to your family may they forever know you were a great guy, with an exceptionally loving heart. You were my friend, a great person to turn to in any time of need. Always there for a hug and a smile. I will never, ever, forget you, you made a positive difference in my life and that is what living on earth should be all about. We may not be here forever but what you have contributed to this world will last a lifetime. Condolences to you family they raised a wounderful man they should be very proud of you, RIP.
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Lauren posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Rest peacefully Brian. You have my word that Addison and Johnny will never forget how much you lived them. I loved having you as a big brother for awhile.
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Jana posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Brian, I have tried to contact everyone we have ever known mutually so that they may be present to pay their respects and thoughts to you. I will always let sawyer know that he had a good man as a father. I'm sorry it took us this long to work out our differences. I will always remember you as the shy boy in Nyma and you will always be the father of my first born.
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Cassandra Lynch posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. I worked with Brian many years ago and he was a great friend and he will be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers throughout this tough time.
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Mary-Lynn posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
My prayers go out to the family. I worked with Brian at Loehmann's and most recently at Gateway. As time passes I know tears will be replaced with smiles and great memories of Brian. He loved his family dearly and was liked by everyone who knew him. You can't tell a story about Brian without cracking a smile. He will be missed.
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Joel Demers posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
I met Brian only one year ago, but we quickly became friends, even more so when he attended my EMT course over the summer. We both come from similar EMS backgrounds, and found so much in common. I appreciate gaining Brian not just as a student, but also a friend.
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Martha posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
No words can ease your pain but please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
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Evie posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the McCarthy family. Please know that Brian was highly respected and appreciated and that we feel his loss deeply. A colleague and friend, his presence was always a comfort. Brian's caring and generous nature, and his exemplary professionalism will be missed but never forgotten.
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mike posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
How I will miss you calling me by my last last name. Work will never be the same with out you. We are so deeply sad here at Gateway. God bless your family at this time of need.
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Daniel Chieffo posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
So saddened with the loss of such a good person. My heart goes out to all of the family.
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Linda (Hickey)Burmeister posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
so very sorry for your loss--you are in my thoughts and prayers Linda Burmeister ,RN
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